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As the summer winds down and fall comes our way, it's natural for us to go within. In this newsletter, Don't go it Alone, I invite you to seek out assistance from others and allow them to contribute to you so that we all get to share our unique gifts and talents. If, at any time, you would like to unsubscribe, simply go to the end of the newsletter. Warmly,  Jean M. DiGiovanna, President, ThinkPeople |
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Don't go it Alone Whenever I meet someone new who is intrigued by what I do, I inevitably get the same question: “How did you get into this? How did you get to be where you are?” And, the consistent answer is, back in the mid-90’s I hired a coach. Even prior to that I participated in growth and development seminars that were taught by some of the most powerful coaches and facilitators I have seen. Out of attending those, I experienced breakthroughs that allowed me to put my past in my past and live in the present with freedom and joy. Along with on-going coaching and accountability, I was able to truly create and generate the future I desired. But, it wasn’t always easy. It started with a strong commitment and desire to change. Prior to that, it began with a high tolerance for the status quo. I was dissatisfied and frustrated with not knowing what I wanted and where I was supposed to be. As I recall that time, it got me thinking about how and when society truly changes. It doesn’t change when things are good. It changes when things get so bad that people feel the pain personally and can no longer tolerate it. I can’t tell you how many people who have suffered and survived a life threatening illness who have said to me, “I would never wish this on anyone, but it made me become more aware in my life, it changed my perspective, it made me eat better, exercise more, put my health first.” It woke them up and forced them to change. I would never wish that on anyone and I am here to tell you there is another way. There is another path to freedom and fulfillment. But, it first takes a willingness and desire to change. It’s ok not to know how to change. What’s more important is that you are open and willing. I would not be where I am today if it were not for the teachers, coaches, mentors and healers I have worked with. I could not do it alone. And, if there was anyone who thought they could, it was me! Having grown up with four older brothers who were all close in age and I came along four years later (the pleasant surprise I like to remind myself ;-) it was not always an easy ride. While most people assume they must have taken care of me, well, let’s just say that didn’t start to happen until we were adults and comfortable in our own skin. I had to fend for myself. I learned how to become independent at a young age and I was one tough cookie! Did those skills help me along the way? Absolutely! Did they also hinder me along the way? Absolutely! But, it wasn’t until I began my path of growth and development through attending seminars and working with coaches, mentors and healers that I learned how to tap into those skills to my benefit. I also learned to recognize when they no longer served me. I became more aware, more conscious and discovered I had a choice. Before that, I was living on automatic pilot. I was living in the body of a 26 yr old, but acting a lot of the time like a 5 yr old. Life was ok, but it surely wasn’t great! When we want to improve our home, we hire contractors, electricians, landscapers. When we start a business, we may hire a web designer, bookkeeper or virtual assistant, yet when it comes to our personal well-being, we don’t often go outside to seek assistance. Your life and well-being is what buys that house or inspires that business so why not hire the appropriate people to help you grow, prosper and thrive? A seed is not a plant without soil, water and the sun. It’s either growing or dying. As Dr Wayne Dyer says, “Don’t die with the music still left inside you.” Make a commitment to grow and to seek the support to get there. It may be from a close friend, an acquaintance or a professional. Either way, going it alone will only get you so far. Recognizing the power of support and collaboration will move you beyond your wildest dreams! Cheers, Jean M. DiGiovanna  Monthly Workout: Don't go it Alone Take on the following questions and process below for this month’s workout:
Don't go it Alone Sometimes, it seems much easier to go it alone. You know what to do, so you do it on your own. But there is something available when we seek from outside, When we let others in and put aside our pride. We grow in ways we never imagined. We achieve so much more. We experience joy and fulfillment and feel our life begin to soar. ~ by Jean M. DiGiovanna PUBLIC APPEARANCES Package Your Expertise into Workshops and Increase Your Revenue and Exposure East Bay Coaches Monday, Sept 21, 2009 6:30pm - 9pm Orinda, CA As coaches, much of our work is 1-on-1 providing extreme value to our clients, but what would be possible if you were able to reach a larger audience? Workshops, seminars and speeches are a great way to impact more individuals, gain exposure for your business and position yourself as an expert. In this highly interactive presentation, you will learn the benefits, common pitfalls and process to introduce workshops and seminars into your offerings and discover how to get your unique expertise out into the world. Details or to register: http://www.eastbaycoaches.org/resource-library/meeting-archive/jean-digiovanna-presenter-september-2009 7 Steps to your Next Great Job ~ How to stay focused and motivated on your job search International Facilities Management Association of Boston Wednesday, Sept 30, 2009 5:30pm - 8:30pm Allsteel Showroom Boston, MA Let's face it - times are challenging right now. Whether you have recently been let go, or are in career transition, now more than ever you need to stay focused and motivated on your job search. In this highly interactive session, we will step through 7 steps and critical success factors to keep you focused and motivated on your job search. After each step, you will get the opportunity to experience and apply it to your specific situation. Details or to register: http://www.ifmaboston.org/events/090930_greatjob_CT.html EVENTS & OTHER ANNOUNCEMENTS Chocolate & Wine Pairing Event! Fri, Sept 11, 2009 7-9pm Led by Chocolate Guru Judy Logback and Wine Expert Marianne Haldoupis. You will experience some of the best dark chocolate in the world, paired with outstanding Latin American and Spanish wines. For more info, go to http://www.AlliancExchange.org The Dream Party Friday, Oct 2, 2009 7pm The Dream Party is a future party that celebrates what’s possible, complete with a time machine and other interactive surprises. Cross over our “Footbridge to the Future” and be welcomed five years into the future with a grand celebration of dreams and goals. This signature event playfully inspires you to identify and embody your dreams for the future, relate to others through the excitement of their dreams, and connecting with the support & expertise needed to take action for success! To purchase tix or for more info, go to http://www.eventbrite.com/event/363165237/createpartnership/930376 Success is a State of Mind - ThinkPeople's Newly Released Book Find out what some of the most successful people believe about success in this remarkable book. You will learn elements that are critical to your success journey such as good communication, how to conquer fear, how to break out of "business as usual", and how to become unstoppable. You will discover how to uncover your true gifts, which involves changing your limiting beliefs and creating new empowering ones that will enable you to honor your values and live the life you truly want.To purchase or for more info, go to http://www.thinkpeople.com/products.html Curious about ThinkPeople's other services beyond Coaching? Check out Corporate Facilitation/Training/ Consulting I hope you've enjoyed ThinkPeople's Monthly Workout and found it valuable! Feel free to forward to your friends, family and colleagues. To read past editions of ThinkPeople's Newsletters and to learn more about our services and products, visit us at http://www.thinkpeople.com/resources.html If you wish to unsubscribe, please e-mail unsubscribe@thinkpeople.com Copyright Info: ThinkPeople's Monthly Workout for the mind, heart and soul is ©2008 Jean M. DiGiovanna. All rights reserved worldwide. No part of this publication may be reproduced without express written permission from the publisher. Amy Rewakowski, Editor ThinkPeople ~ Bringing Individuals and Organizations Alive! jdigi@thinkpeople.com http://www.thinkpeople.com/ 617.489.7494 |
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